>>>Patah tumbuh hilang berganti<<<

Kenangan; yg patah akan tumbuh semula, yg hilang akan berganti. Sememangnya orang melayu lama begitu ‘observant’ dan bijak dalam memilih pepatah yang menggambarkan reality kehidupan sebenar. “patah tumbuh, hilang berganti” is a saying undeniably true.

‘Friendship’, satu ungkapan yang sukar dijelaskan kesahihannya. Memang senang untuk mengungkapkan “he/she is my best friend” tp akan yang menjadi kayu ukur untuk menentukan siapa kawan, rakan, teman, sahabat dan cinta. Realitinya, kebanyakkan akan melabel seseorang kawan sebagai sahabat sebagai seorang/ kawan2 tempat menyimpan rahsia dan tempat mengadu.

There are few things that we’re unable to tell our parents or even our siblings, that is when we’ll go to our best friends; telling them thing that unbearable by us alone. Our friend will listen, but sometimes, they just don’t bother. Or maybe we’ll say someone as our best friend when we share the same interest. Take singing as an example, just because we share the same interest, it doesn’t mean we can be best friends. So how is it to identify best friends? Is it someone that we miss a lot? Is it someone that we ask for help? Is it someone that we dream of? It’s so hard. Sometimes, we’ll get confused between love and friendship. I’ve always had that problem. Our gf/bf can be our best friend but can our best friends be our bf/gf? Think about it...

Have you even felt that your best friend is being very secretive, not telling you thing that they think as private, but telling it to other people rather than you, who should be trusted. Well, i guess i always feel that. It makes me think that that person is not trusting you enough but why does that person tell someone else than? Is that person trustworthy? This is what may change my day miserable. Maybe, just maybe, that person feels rather uncomfortable sharing it with me so that person feels that it is better to “mengadu domba” with others.

I used to uphold ‘friendship’ but not anymore. I don’t really trust the term called ‘friendship’ i mean having a best friend. But i cant deny the fact that i am close with some people that maybe can be called best friends but its really hard to make up my mind. Its painful to lose a friend what more a best friend. Till the next entry, chow chin chow...